Living without love is merely surviving. That’s why I made love my path: to understand it, live it deeply, and share it. Today, I guide those seeking a partner, train those who help others, and share all I’ve learned through books, talks, and podcasts. It all comes from the same impulse: to let love transform lives… just as it transformed mine.

About me

If I could find love in the midst of my own labyrinths, so can you.

Verónica

I wasn’t born searching for love, yet it has given meaning to everything I am.

I’ve known light and shadow, certainty and doubt, but one truth has always guided me: to love and be loved is the most transformative force there is. Step by step, I discovered that helping others find love is another way of loving.

Along that journey, life gave me its greatest gift: meeting my husband. Today, that path has become a purpose that shapes every day of my life.

Milestones

Milestones that changed my life

Along my journey, there have been moments—sometimes unexpected, sometimes sought—that transformed the way I understand love, life, and my purpose. Small and big decisions alike left their mark and led me to where I am today. These are the moments that shaped my path.

Time is the best storyteller:
it always finds the perfect ending

Charles Chaplin
  • 1971 - 1981

    Childhood

    Between the ages of three and ten, I lived in a boarding school with my older sister. That period, marked by difficult family circumstances, taught me to be strong, to adapt, and to find my own place in the world. I found refuge in sports and in the energy of children, discovering that independence could also be a form of survival. That environment gave me great strength, but left a silent mark: an emotional void that later life would invite me to understand and heal.

  • 1989 - 2001

    Journey

    From a young age, I traveled and studied in many countries, both for work and for pleasure. Of the more than 80 countries I visited, the seven years I spent in Bangkok left the deepest impression on my life: there I met extraordinary people and immersed myself in Asian culture and Buddhism, questioning how we live in the West and whether it truly leads to happiness. After living on four continents, I realized that all these travels were, in a way, a forward escape that ultimately awakened a deep spirituality within me

  • Siempre

    Family

    In 2001, while living in England, my mother called: my father was very ill. I didn’t hesitate and returned to Madrid, because family is the most important thing, even amid disagreements. Back home, I not only reunited with my family but also with my own story. I began rebuilding my life from scratch, with a deep desire to form a stable and happy partnership, though it wasn’t easy: I couldn’t find the right person and sometimes wondered if the problem was me.

  • 2013

    Matchmaking

    My own search for love taught me how much it can cost to find the right person. When I discovered matchmaking in the United States, I decided to bring it to Spain and create my own project: : Alcanda Matchmaking®. This project was born to guide others in their search for authentic and lasting relationships, applying a method based on respect, understanding, and conscious connection. For me, it’s not just work: it’s a way to give hope and happiness, helping others discover the transformative power of true love.

  • Hoy

    Sergio & Ada

    My everyday life is shaped by two loves. Sergio, my husband, is my rock, my friend, and the person I choose every day to share my life with. His presence brings stability, security, and a love that grows with time. Ada, our little dog, gives us unconditional, sincere, and tender love. Together, they represent balance, complicity, and loyalty, reminding me that love takes many forms and can transform life completely.

  • Infinito

    Love & Beyond

    I’ve learned that love isn’t limited to having a partner, to what we are, or to what we possess: it permeates every experience, relationship, and decision we make. It has taught me patience, to listen, to understand, and to value the beauty of bonds built with respect and authenticity. Today, my interest in love goes beyond the personal: it guides my professional work and reminds me that loving and being loved is a journey that never ends.

Purpose

From experience to purpose

Everything I have lived has given rise to a purpose that runs through every facet of my life: to accompany, inspire, and open paths so that people can love and live more fully. Today, I put this purpose into practice in many ways, each one focused on helping others find happiness and build authentic relationships.

Don’t look for the most beautiful person in the world.
Look for the person who makes your world more beautiful.

Verónica
Coming soon

Alcanda Matchmaking® was born in 2013 from a question I once asked myself: Why can’t I find a partner?

That personal experience led me to define a clear purpose: to accompany those seeking deep and lasting love.

Through the method I created and patented, Head-Hunting Sentimental©, I help people discover and connect with the right partner. Each process focuses on understanding individual values, expectations, and ways of loving, making it possible to build authentic, solid, and respectful relationships that grow naturally and consciously.

Coming soon

Matchmaking Corporation© was founded in 2018 as a company dedicated to training and certifying matchmaking professionals with rigor, professionalism, and ethics, following recognized standards such as UNE and ISO.

Together with my partner Raquel, we share our experience so others can guide people in building authentic and lasting relationships. Each training program transforms a vocation into a profession, supporting those who wish to work in this field with both professionalism and sensitivity, and providing the tools and knowledge needed to transform lives through conscious love and genuine connection.

Coming soon

Through my books, I share my experience and passion for love in all its forms: the love that connects us, transforms us, and teaches us. Each book is born from the desire to accompany those who are seeking love or wishing to strengthen their relationship.

Within these pages, I offer insights, reflections, and tools shaped by years of listening to and guiding people who want to love and be loved. They are an invitation to understand others and ourselves, and to cultivate love with awareness and tenderness.

Coming soon

As a speaker, I share my vision of love as a key to happiness, longevity, fulfillment, and conscious living. My talks inspire audiences to understand that loving in all its forms gives meaning to our existence, while also addressing self-knowledge, balance, and well-being.

My aim is for every participant to leave with practical and profound reflections that can transform their lives and relationships, discovering that love not only strengthens bonds but also changes the way we live and relate to others.

Coming soon

In my podcast “Let’s Talk About Love” (in Spanish), I converse with fascinating people about experiences, lessons, and reflections on love, relationships, and life. Each episode offers real stories, practical advice, and moments of inspiration that help us better understand how to love, be loved, and live with balance and well-being.

An intimate and welcoming space to explore all forms of love, discover new perspectives, and feel that, every day, love has the power to transform our lives.

Books

An open book is a speaking mind; closed, a waiting friend; forgotten, a forgiving soul; destroyed, a crying heart.

Proverbio hindú

Por qué no encuentro pareja: Reflexiones de una head-hunter sentimental

An essential essay for understanding the difficulty of finding a partner in the digital age. With insightful observations and real-life experiences, the book explores the various options available and explains the main reasons why we find it so difficult.

El Mapa del Amor: 365 consejos para encontrar, formar y consolidar una pareja

An inner journey for those who want to understand and improve their romantic relationships. Through a collection of reflections and thoughts, this book aims to support, contribute to, and enrich both couples and individuals seeking a life partner.

The Road to Love: 365 Tips to Find True Love and Embrace Happiness

International edition of The Map of Love guides readers on their journey toward authentic and lasting love. With 365 practical tips, it offers guidance, inspiring reflections, and suggestions for navigating the challenges of love, from finding a partner to strengthening existing relationships, helping to cultivate happiness and conscious connection.

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